Colorado Springs, Colorado 2021-04-08 07:00:14 –
Colorado Springs — As we work to recover from the effects of the pandemic, we want to raise awareness of domestic violence as the numbers have increased compared to the previous year.
New non-profit organization
Kingdom Builder’s Family Life Center was founded in 2013 by Lisa Jenkins.
She was a survivor of domestic violence and found her calling to help others break the cycle of abuse.
Nonprofits have enough grants to support 50 people, but so far this year they have already supported 80 people.
They help with everything from statutory costs, housing, emotional support to work help and taking people to a safe home.
“In such situations, it often takes many times to get out of it, so the family initially probably wanted to help you, but you chose to stay (how many times). They stopped because they also tried). So I am grateful that my family was able to provide the necessary services and support to move my life forward, “said Jenkins.
The story of a woman
Survivor Melissa Hall said it took nearly a decade to get out of the abusive relationship.
“I’m scared so I think it takes me a lot to get out, but I’ll be back. Or you’re being manipulated, or you’re being told, you know-it’s a cycle.” Said Hall.
The housewife said she was homeless at some point and that previous attempts to get help failed.
She said there were many operations in her relationship, but with the help of Kingdom Builder supporters she was finally free.
“It’s a place where you can come, someone really intends to walk with you, they really care who you are, you plan for success, and for that success you It’s great because it helps you prepare, “Hall said.
Hall went to Kingdom Builder every week to work on her personal success plan and said she and her kids are now in a good home. She volunteers to work to fight for the reform of social justice and is grateful for finding her voice.
Men are also victims
Derrick Grimes is a father, flyfisherman, military member, and survivor of domestic violence.
“It’s not something I’m proud to say, but it happened,” Grimes said.
He says his relationship with his wife, less than a year old, had deteriorated so badly at some point that he had to call the police. He wished he had known about some warning signs before, some of which shocked him.
“I thought you needed to be beaten or choked, but no, it took your key, your wallet, your cell phone, a fake captivity type It’s a thing. It controls you financially. Such a small thing is (also) considered domestic violence, “Grimes said.
Grimes said that what made things even more difficult was that people didn’t take him seriously.
“I was having a hard time finding other organizations that actually believed in me and talked and believed in my side of the story. They wouldn’t see it,” Grimes said.
Kingdom Builder’s Family Life Center did. They helped him move forward with counseling and legal costs.
Founder Lisa Jenkins said men may rarely be as brave as they are in front of them. How do you get this woman to hit you, as they (others) may say, you are 6 feet 3 inches. “
The national number is displayed One in three women and one in four men experience physical abuse. The number of men may be underreported due to stigma. Jenkins also said there was a lack of awareness that domestic violence could occur in many ways.
“Most people think that the body is domestic violence. There was no clue because it wasn’t physical that some men came and were being abused,” Jenkins said. I did.
Grimes said he was very grateful for the help he received.
He wants to encourage other men to reach out for help.
There are growing calls for help
Kingdom Builders said the left-behind community is working to help break the cycle of domestic violence.
Founder Lisa Jenkins is the one who survived herself. I chose to live. “
Her abusive relationship began at the age of 19. She founded Kingdom Builder’s with the help of her family when she fled years and decades later. Jenkins is now helping other victims become survivors.
Small nonprofits are actually working to help our communities and lead victims in a variety of ways.
“Everyone’s story is different. Everyone’s success looks different. And we don’t want to tell them what they need to succeed. How we can support them. I want them to teach me, “Jenkins said.
Numbers from the Pueblo Police Department and the El Paso County Sheriff’s Office show an increasing call for domestic violence between 2019 and 2020.
“When you’re already in a hostile or violent house and the abusers are there all day,” Jenkins said because of the isolation caused by the pandemic.
Colored people may be afraid to come forward
About 90% of Kingdom Builder clients are male and of color.
Jenkins said it’s difficult for many to move forward because of trust issues.
“We tend to be kind (say)-I don’t want to report, what if they try to remove my kid or something like that? So you really don’t trust Hmm. And not specifically documented. I’m worried-if I report it, it would risk me being deported or something bad happening to my family. “Jenkins said.
She said Kingdom Builder’s is there to help and needs a community to break the cycle.
“For me, it was to understand who I am, how to raise myself, and how to take care of me,” said survivor Melissa Hall. ..
“Don’t be ashamed of what happened to you just because it happened. It happens to many people. Many people just don’t speak up,” said Derrick Grimes.
The nonprofit and its survivors are working to change the story, stop domestic violence, and give everyone the opportunity to lead a fulfilling and healthy life.
Help is available
There is also a youth mentoring program to help children grow into healthy and fulfilling leaders.
Jenkins said grants help keep them running, but they are always grateful for external funding, donations of items to safe homes, and volunteer support.
They have a 24/7 crisis hotline and feel free to call 719-464-4647 if you need or want help.
Their website also has a chat feature.You can know in detail click here.
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